Living a Sex Positive Life

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What is Fairvilla University?

While many people may not think an adult novelty shop a.k.a. sex shop, as a safe place to learn about sex; it is now becoming the place to go for comprehensive sex education. Sex-Positive Shops such as The Pleasure Chestand Good Vibrations have been offering classes, workshops and seminars for several years throughout all their stores. Good Vibrations even has […]

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Why do we love to publicly shame personal choices?

On Friday I was listening to the morning show Johnny’s House on XL106.7. They have a segment called Sidetakers where two people call in to have their dispute settle by the audience and must agree to abide to the audience’s decision. This week Sidetakers featured two women, Sharon & Dawn, who called in about their upcoming girls weekend in Key […]

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What’s Missing in Medical Training Today?

Last weekend my wife & I volunteered at an event to educate people on sexual wellness, hygiene, consent, and boundaries. One note to mention is that this event was held at a community for the mentally challenged (hoping I used the correct term). Although the reason I’m writing this story has nothing to do with […]

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Starting as a Dominant

I’ve been in the kink lifestyle, meaning swinging, for over 10 years but it’s only been the last year that I have been exploring BDSM. My wife and I have were familiar with the local dungeon and started with weekly roping classes. Soon it became classes twice a week plus a weekend night. Then the […]

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Closing a Relationship

These days you can find an abundance of articles, videos and podcasts about polyamory, swinging and open relationships. Some caution about the damaging affects and call it an immoral activity. Others praise the emotional and sexual benefits and believe it to be more of an identity rather than just a hobby. Although these alternative relationships […]

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The Importance of the 3 C’s of Relationships

You are curious about being kinky but do not know where to start. You finally attend a Kink 101 workshop where they start throwing out words like Safe, Sane Consensual (SSC) or Risk Awareness Consensual Kink (RACK). Your mind goes into a  head spin because they are talking about communication, negotiations,  boundaries, consent and more. That you feel […]

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Movement when Roped

Last night my wife and I planned an intimate evening at home. I laid out my rope as she undressed. First, I wrapped her chest and we were both having fun. Next, I tied her legs so they could not be extended. Nothing fancy just a basic tie I’ve done before. She laid back and […]

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Florida Intense Rope Experience 2017

For many, the word “rope” doesn’t conjure feelings of excitement, beauty or passion but that was quickly changed for attendees of F.I.R.E. 2017. Florida Intense Rope Experience or F.I.R.E. for short, brought together over 400 rope enthusiasts & instructors from all over the world. In attendance were subject matter experts on roping including Furious Buddha, […]

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Being Bisexual

We are often label, classified and sorted into groups. Democrat or Republican, religious or atheist, white collar or blue collar, we have an almost obsessive need to group people by a simple word or term. Male bisexuals are a subgroup of a subgroup that is often often minimized, forgotten or sometimes questioned to even exist […]

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Why I bought a Vibrator for my tween daughter

An old blog post that I decided to resurrect from the past. My daughter is now 15 and doing very well. =) Enjoy a blast from the past. Our journey is not normal by all means. I have done lots of research on how to help a child heal after being sexual abuse for many […]

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